Paul,
you need a woman. A full-time woman. then you can resist the temptation to live vicariously through everyone else!
Aidwin,
not really sure. at the moment I think the material may be toooo thin, cause it gets REALLY ****ing hot!
may have to rip it out and use it as a template to rebuild a better thicker one.
In the mean time, it looks ****ing tough!
I guess if anything, it has highlighted to me the importance of having one. It gets so hot it's almost too hot to touch!