Au contraire. I get a few compliments about my deadlifting (along with the occasional criticism about my back rounding), so top spot at my gym has it's value in ego feeding, because people there rarely see others lifting as much weight. As markos has pointed out in the past, some people prefer to train at these gyms because they like being the strongest there, rather than to train at a lifting gym and be humbled (or more accurately in my case, cbf driving 40 minutes for a gym session). If you compare us to powerlifters at a lifting gym, we will come up short, but compared to mainstream gyms and the exercising population as a whole...we hold our own in terms of strength. We'd probably be in the 95th percentile once you account for crossfitters deadlifting 16kg. But again, it was a joke. There's probably someone stronger than me pound for pound who goes to my gym when I don't.
Au contraire #2: top spots in lifting on the whole, at any gym, mean jack outside of the community of people who actually do the exercise or are interested enough to hear about it. And my gym is it's own community, so regardless of many outside being stronger than me, it's irrelevant. If I tell people at my gym who are impressed by my lifting, that so and so at PTC can lift so and so (and I sometimes do), they smile and nod at me pretending to give a shit / be amazed. As we've said before, society doesn't care if you can deadlift 300kg, they will pay compliment to the better looking dude who can only do 150kg. Strength has little weight in a society built around making machines do work for us.
Sort of along the lines of fast and loud cars don't attract girls, only other people with fast and loud cars.
Au contraire #3: Leigh is spoken for...