mate, im looking for exactly the same info for my neo into 260z swap, have also removed the TCS/ABS during the conversion and the CEL (code 44 and 46) which the ECU throws from not having the circuits connected keeps putting the engine into limp mode which is a HUGE pita..
Unfortunately if we had the control boxes etc wired up this would be an easy fix as you would just just need wire the "TCS on/off" switch to ground which would put it permanently off and not throw a CEL..but from the pic it looks like we are both in the same boat...
To share the path ill be going down, iv gone through the circuits for the r34 TCS/ABS system and also the expected voltages seen from the ECU, going off your pic, these are all ECU expected values while the car is running: 79 - Multiples Comms is a varying signal but averages 2v. 53 - Motor Throttle Switch signal remains at 4.7v (while the TCS system is off) 51 - Throttle Motor Sensor 3.4v (while the TCS system is off) 37 - Throttle opening sensor (i think this might be an output from the ECU to the TCU computer), this is the same values as your pedal TPS on pin 23.
I guess the best bet will be finding resistors which drop a 12v supply to roughly these values to trick the ECU..
From what i understand the only two which will cause issues (ie what the ECU checks for) are the multiplex signal and the Throttle Motor Sensor (ie pin 79 and 51) i would assume the others dont make any difference and can be cut back.. let me know if you find anything out and we can work this out together haha