I'm sure a lot of members on here has been scammed by some low life before, myself included. But you're asking for help recovering what you have lost. R31Nismoid has advised you how he is able to assist, he can only do so much to help you with your mistake. If you don't take on his advise fair enough, but starting a new thread sooking about the issue isn't going to do much help. At the end of the day it's your responsibility to ensure a secure transaction. Mods not going to babysit and hold your hand through the whole way.
Understand that you'd be pissed off for you're lost, and I truely hope the best outcome. Either way, let this be a lesson as I have been taught myself. I'm assured almost everyone on this forum is legit and are on here for all the right reason, it's a shame there's a few out there that takes advantage of the honestly of these true members. But you're flaming at the people who are there to assist.