Looked him up and may be worth a chance. Thanks for the link.
Had a chat with the mrs and she agrees that over the last 18 months, things have gotten progressively worse.
I've come to the resolution that there is a solution and it's going to be a solution that I don't like. Whether it be drugs or therapy etc..
Doesn't mean that people (including members, non-members, members from other states etc) can push people to breaking point for the sake of it. There are rules for a reason but respecting more senior people here and their opinions is crucial.