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funkymonkey Grand Master

funkymonkey

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FAIL... sif real women go on forums to look for guys.

I scrolled right to the bottom, so I haven't even read the crap you wrote. Pitiful effort.

eMsta Grand Master

eMsta

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haha emsta2003... lets see how many movies we can quote between us!!! cant remember what mocie YOURS was from... but i know it was an old lady that said it...

nah that was from seinfeld - george costanza!

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funkymonkey Grand Master

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Hey guys! :D. My name is Shaun, I'm 19, and I love hot 'Lines. As the title says, I just not so long ago told the bf where to go! :worship: Sick of jerks!, thought this site might be a good way to meet nice guys with cool cars =]

Anyway, the story goes (if ur interested)- I had been going out with him (the now-ex) for almost 6 months. We met online, through MSN. We started talking, and it turned out that we went to the same high school and he lived only a couple of blocks away from me. So, we met, and since then have been going out. I must admit, we rushed into this way too fast.

Everything was going perfect. So, since he wanted to move out and I had to move out of my parents' home, we decided to find our own place. He told me that he has a job and that he will help me with the bills and everything. He said that he has a job working from home, making computer games, and that he was making $2,900 in 2 weeks. He also told me that he cared about me so much and he was going to prove it to me on our 1 year anniversary - he was going to propose to me.

Anyways, we moved in together after dating for 2 months. Everything was going just fine! I'd never been happier. After about a month of living together, I stumbled across the chat logs on our computer. I thought that maybe those were mine or my brother's, so I went to delete them. Then I saw that they were not ours. Those were John's chat logs - him talking to other girls. Out of curiosity, I opened one of them. Oh my God! What I read was unbelievable. He was talking to a girl and told her that he wanted to meet her and go out with her and things like that. I was shocked! Without telling him anything about it, I left it as is, and just went to my room and cried.

Later on, he found out that I had read it and b1tched at me for snooping around his business and that I have no right to look at his conversations. That was enough for me to lose my trust in him. As the time went by, he started going out more often, that same girl started calling more often, he called her back.

Then he started leaving for the night. He would make up stupid excuses such as, "I'm going out to the store for a sec., be back in a few minutes" and come home at 11am next morning. Then, when I asked him where he was, he would say that he was out with his friend Ben. I knew that he was not out with him. That is when I stopped trusting him. Although I pretended that nothing was wrong and that everything was same as always, I was hurting inside. He started going out more and more often, and that was killing me. When you love someone, its hard to tell them to leave.

(By the way, he hadn't paid me for rent or other bills or anything like that yet.)

Later on, he told me that he talked to my friends and they have been telling him everything that I was telling them about us and my personal problems. He tried to distance me away from them. Although I found out later on that it was all a lie, and nobody told him anything. My best friend for over 8 years, Sasha, absolutely hates him for what he's been doing to me and how he's been treating me.

I must admit, she wasn't the only one thinking like this. Everyone I knew hated him and they have been telling me that he is a liar and that I should get rid of him before its too late, but I just did not see that. I guess I just did not want to see the truth. Every day and every night he would tell me that he loves me, and we would fall asleep cuddled up and he was literally wrapping himself around me and telling me how much he loved me and that he was so afraid to lose me and that I'm the girl that he's been looking for... blah blah blah.

On Thursday, he left and he said that he was going for a bit and he wouldn't be long. Earlier that day, I sent him and e-mail asking him to go out, but he never replied. So, I mentioned it to him and he said that he never received it, so he left. After he left, I checked the caller ID and found that right before he left, he received a call from someone who had been calling the house a lot. She called and he left with her! On Friday morning, as I got up to go to work, he was still out. I was really mad. So, I went to work and I called the number from the caller ID and told her not to call my house again. I think I scared her a bit.

Later that day, I came home from work and he was home. I ignored him completely, didn't want to look at him, talk to him, or have any contact with him. He was trying to start a conversation with me and was asking me what was wrong, and I just said, nothing. He admitted to seeing the girl, but only to tell her not to call again because it is causing tension and we are always arguing about it and basically its causing problems in our relationship. Her response was to kick him out of the car and he spent the night at his aunt's place. I was like, whatever, and things went back to normal...so he thought.

That night, the girl called again and he talked to her as if nothing had happened. So, I called her back and left a message on her machine saying, "Are you f*ckin deaf or stupid? I told you to never f*ckin' call my place again!" I didn't hear from her for the rest of the night.

The next day, he went out with his buddy, Ben and was gone for a few hours. At that time, I called Sasha and asked her to come over, 'cause she hadn't seen my place yet. She said, "Yeah, sure, give me a couple of hours and I'll be there.....

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L.O.L

A long weekend deserves an extra special T.G.I.F pwning, me feels! :worship:

If I don't see ya, have a tops one :)

Cheers :(

Shaun

there you go... fixed up the true identity of this wanton woman :blush:

sh@un Grand Master

sh@un

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FAIL... sif real women go on forums to look for guys.

I scrolled right to the bottom, so I haven't even read the crap you wrote. Pitiful effort.

Cut'n'Paste for the win :)

i only modified the top line

u coulda left it 'till midday :(

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