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righto so most of you know i'm pregnant and am having a bit of drama with the father to be.

well when i got home from Melbourne 1 of his friends attacked me via his msn saying that

i'm only keeping the baby to keep him in my life and so i don't have to work.

oh and that it probably isn't his :D .

i went to Legal Aid yesterday and was told that a paternity test won't be done till after the baby

is born and nothing can legally be done till after it's born.

the woman told me not to contact him, which i haven't done in just over a week, changed my number

and now i have to change all my hospital appointments, if i don't change them i can tell him i don't

want him in the room (which i already knew)

not long till my 20wk ultrasound :(

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Hey Amanda, hope the appointments all go well and its smooth sailing for you ... then after the crying bubs is born, all hell will break loose and you'll get no sleep :D

Listen to the advice of legal aid. They'll keep you on track. Disregard what any of the exes mates say to you. They're obviously full of it. :O

err isnt this stuff personal (between u and people directly involved). sounds like ur just having a bitch about things.. no offence.

How is it any different to you guys whinging about ex girlfriends? She just happens to be a single mum now because of a break up. If she wants to talk about it, she's initiated it, and she's the primary person involved in all this. :)

Hey Amanda, hope the appointments all go well and its smooth sailing for you ... then after the crying bubs is born, all hell will break loose and you'll get no sleep :D

Listen to the advice of legal aid. They'll keep you on track. Disregard what any of the exes mates say to you. They're obviously full of it. :O

How is it any different to you guys whinging about ex girlfriends? She just happens to be a single mum now because of a break up. If she wants to talk about it, she's initiated it, and she's the primary person involved in all this. :)

LOL yeah not looking forward to all the crying and no sleep, i barely get any now haha.

changed my number last night so won't hear anything from him or his friends. just changed all the appointments aswel

which was only 2 but still.

exactly this is no different to any whinging or bitching any1 else does on here. it may be more personal but so what it's my choice

to share that with people on here who i consider to be good friends/ people.

wow 20 wks..........already 1/2 way there!!

not quite half way yet, just under 4wks till i am :down:

when it's put into days lol yeah it does seem like forever.

but it's only 5months, which doesn't seem as long and considering i'm already 4months

it's going reasonably quick which is great, but i'm sure as it gets closer to the date time

will slow down as usual haha

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