Cross Member Help

[BenSm]

hi all. doing a manual conversion and need help with the cross member. Iv tried searching for it but no one has explained how to actually do it or hasnt replyed on the forum. someone would have to know how to do this or has done it. Pics would be great but if not, the best explaintion you can give me. I'v herd someone has used s13 cross memeber and others say they dont work. others say they just used a manual crossmember....iv got a manual one and it dont fit......I wish there was a forum on here with actual facts and not just tribble coming out of someones mouths. please, let me know.

Thanks.