heat soak of a side mount is a dyno booth symptom, it doesn't occur on the road to this extent. The dyno fans whislt powerfull don't simulate the airflow of higher speeds and are usually pointed directly at the radiator, hence a fmic suffers less issues.
Intake temps take a while to climb on a standard turb/standard smic o in road going conditions, a fmic takes much longer to see increases of course but, unless you are circuit bound a fmic upgrade is not going to help if you already have an R34 smic.
as always final tune & power runs are best 'bonnet down', then it's time for a road tune to finish off.
I'd be keeping the R34 unit myself till turbo upgrade time or your car is ready to go circuit racing.