I'm not meaning any disrespect, and i'm not trying to be "That" guy, but isn't everything between you and her meant to be strictly confidential? That said, I do hope she ends up somewhere she can get the help she needs, and everything works out.
True.
You can have an (arguably) nicer sounds and very little power, or a more muffled sound and more powah.
Power is obviously more important than just sound, but having said that the N/A's sound niiiice.