haha cvnt
I don't see 120 as being a big scary number at all, great for a 60kg women as I said, but I'm not that so I'll be aiming a bit higher than that down the track.
I agree on the relativity front too. When I first put up that thread about balancing out my home gym routine it was a real eye opener and there's been many more since. To be fair though I've always been completely self taught and worked out at home so I genuinely thought a 100kg bench was ok, and funnily enough when I got back into exercising I said 100 would be enough and now I'm benching 110 and still feeling like there's more in the tank and embarrassed by that number.
My main goal was, and still is, to get "balance" and to do that my squat and DL should be a fair whack higher than my bench, so I have a ways to go, but given what I've learned on here, through Markos, you, Matt etc, it's given me a completely different view on what is decent and what I might actually be capable of. Plus it made me buy a rack, which is baller.
In terms of the mental aspect, I wouldn't say I 'fear' any exercise but I am certainly more careful with some given the risk in getting it wrong and having to get out from under it, so squat mostly, bench to a degree. A spotter would be great some times.
I've come a long way mentally in terms of being "ok" with getting out 4 reps of 5 or 7 of 8 but at a higher weight, I used to think that if I attempted a new weight and didn't complete the whole set it was a complete failure, now I just see it is part of the process.
This thread has delivered for me so far
So thanks to you all you f**kers.