Got nothin but respect for ya then Sled.
I've been riding almost 19 years. Had two majors. The last one was single vehicle, got caught out by the road conditions at under 60kph. It happens. And 'yeah' I've picked up on the 'defensive riding' skills over the years. Track days help alot too with regards to rider-bike relationship and knowing what you can and can't do in an emergency.
I've got my GF and 9yo to think about, but they fully encourage me to ride. Cam (9yo) even came to my hospital bedside when I broke my shoulder and asked when we could go riding again. I've explained the full risks and all to him, but he wants to ride. Tracy would rather him learn early by me, than jumping on a bike later in life with no experience. They've seen how happy it makes me to be riding, and they fully support that and want to get involved too. Even lying in hospital talking to my biker mates who came to visit, they saw how close our community is.
I've taken Cam dirt bike riding and encouraged him to get the bike out of shape, just to feel what it can do and when the point of no return is, because you don't get that luxury on the road.