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Hello Aidwin and Godf4th3r. Love the new photo, very presentable, and that lovely smile!

Yeah I know, that is worse. Or how many kids and what they wanna do with them and where they want to live! I had a ex do that in 2 weeks and needless to say, it lasted 2 1/2 weeks!

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Niz. from a guys perspective, i think i can see the exact reason he does and says these things.

If he contacted you for a big D+M chances are he wanted to say sumthing etc but couldnt (maybe couldnt find a way, or you didnt go about it properly (which chiks can and tend to do!! lol). Guys tend to want girls to reassure them in those sort of situations. Same thing happened to me... with ex GF

When he was saying he saying he was a champion and stuff, he MAY have been trying to put himself above you and make you think, "shit, this guys good, maybe we should try to work things out" or woteva. Alot of guys act like that, to make themselves feel better.

as for sunday, the chick clearly doesnt mean anything to him. If she did, he would act like he did with you. Hes just putting her in someone elses place (probably yours). Him walking away like he probably did, acheived one thing for him. to make you think about things and maybe feel bad.

You said it was like it was someone else in his body, so that says that you know, deep down, it wasnt him.... Ignore his attitudes and stuff. as hard as it is, you have to see past that for a litte while

Give it a week or so, call him up (without the chik around) and just be open (say you've changed (and for the worse, that makes guys think) with him. if he acts all macho (im a legend, just ignore it). once a guy gets into a D+M, then u will make progress.

just dont ignore it (for yours and his sake) otherwise things will become worse

ohh and i have N.F.I either....... just my experiences lol

thanks :P

Mat i dont know what to do but i think it would be hard to call him - besides i erased his mobile number accidently. ive probably got it on one of his business cards somewhere but with andrew u have to be in a certain state of mind to talk to him and at the moment i cant handle going to work and talking to my boss let alone talking to someone like him.

U did raise some very good points tho :)

He better be taking care of my cat!! If he's not taking care of himself i hate to think what shadow looks like!

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