Dave,
I don't believe the ABS and the ECU talk to each other at all (in the AWD models, the ECU and ATTESSA talk TPS to each other, though).
Dan,
In the R32, the tacho signal to the ECU unplugs from the main ECU loom, so presumably does the same in the R31. Worst case, find it and plug it into pinout #7.
The starter and alternator should work exactly the same. In the worst case, you might need to fit the alternator off the red motor onto the silver motor.