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jesus such hostility...

Not many girls get cars and based on how much time, effort and money alot of guys poor into them cars to girls = the enemy.

Its quite simple really.

You were honest enough to tell it straight at the start that you wanted a 2nd car.

Your GF should have been honest with you from the beginning IMHO. If she didn't want you having the 2nd car she should have said it straight in the first place - because you wasted time asking around and researching etc... "Might" have prevented the argument in the first place.

I wouldn't risk the relationship...

But you "could" twist it in your favour.

Maybe she wants a new/newer car.

Since its going to be a daily car. You get her crappy charade and you buy her a newer nicer car... No girl would turn that down

Just my 2c

see i was gonna suggest that man, but then you've just okayed what she did. and rewarded her with a new car. plus what "new" car can you get for a couple grand that she would be happy with?

^ good point - I didn't look at it from that angle.

WYTSKY - What car did you initially have in mind?

Hey guys,

had some time to think about the situation, went to Qland with a mate for 5 days...

I admit I have been a bit unfair on the situation... I was too harsh on her and she has also said the same to me.

Im probably not the best listener of women, so Jess saying I don't think its a good idea and I don't think you should get another one..... im just going to say I can't put that together, so theres part my fault too...

she only said its a car vs her only because we rent and we may move to another location in another year, so our situation isn't 100% set in concrete where or how we live over the next few years and if for some reason i had to move back home, the p's couldn't/wouldn't want me to have another car...

so the situation is at an end, i guess im just jumping the gun a little bit with our location and stuff, but just didn't want her looking like a complete b*tch to everyone when she does look out for me, i just don't notice it alot of times....

Finally, as im sure most blokes on here in long term relationships know, compromising comes from both parts, so when the time is right i'll get my daily!

boys will be boys ;)

round her little finger.

As 33gtst said, car = enemy. I know this all too well, but if she does not respect it, she does not respect you.

I see nothing wrong with a daily, perpahs keep the 33 at a family members property for the weekend?

End of the day its utter crap, I see no good argument if the body coprorate is AOK with it.

holy crap man! no joke as i read the first post i thought "wouldn't it be funny if the bitch was lying to him just cos she doesn't want him to have another car? hehehe". sux balls that my sense of humour is prescient.

seriously though. get the car. if she leaves over something like jealousy that you have two cars while she has a shit one, she wasn't worth keeping in the first place, end of story. if it was financial issues then maybe she has a right to be worried, and a sane person would try to discuss it wit you.

quick question; is she living with you, or are you living with her?

totally agree with above.

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