Yeah give me a couple of months and I'll let you know how RB30 + GT35R goes
Also, if you're rebuilding, there's no significant difference between building a 25/30 and rebuilding a 25.
Short motor generally means bottom end and head, no manifolds, turbos, injectors or ancillaries.
20thou and 40thou is thousands of an inch oversize, i.e. if the bores are scored and you need to bore them out then you would be going 0.020" oversize etc.
An example is my crank, I had it ground for 0.010" (0.25mm) oversize bearings.