I'll have to crawl around the column of a 33 to tell you the exact colours.
you will need a 5 pin relay labelled : 86,85,87,87a,30.
wired in this fashion:
85- gnd
86 +12 IGN (blk/red on column)
30 - light circuit in (red/blue)
87a - light circuit out.
that will switch them off when you turn the key off.