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What happened Matty?

Spoke to her last weekend, said I'm not gonna have any regrets, so just one last time, do you want to try again?

She said No. Had a bit of an argument, got upset, next day thought "f**k you" and started moving on. Today she messaged me about picking up her shit then wanted me to drop it off, I said No. Of course she started an argument over it and resorted to insults, and I didn't. I didn't give two f**k's, I felt nothing anymore, and I loved it.

Add in the fact that I'm seeing a f**kin cute as f**k chick this weekend, 10 times hotter than my ex... yeah, I'm already happy :P

Great to hear mate, it'll only get easier too. Sounds like you got closure from the "no regrets" thing, pushing all the blame onto her.You may have a relapse or two along the way (hopefully not), but stay strong - they will disappear in time and keeping yourself distracted is a great way about it. If you start thinking about her or get the urge to communicate again, just think about all the things that pissed you off about her and how she hurt you during the break up.

Don't fall into the trap of comparing new girls to your ex, as is common after a recent break up and can bring up feelings you don't want. Just have fun and enjoy the good parts of being single. You never know when you'll meet another one worth keeping!

And...it's completely normal to always have a soft spot for someone you once loved...when someone is a huge part of your life for so long, there will always be memories and nostalgia. So don't feel bad about that if it happens.

:cheers:

I'm like 178cm ~90kg and I wear a 52......

... I... I don't know brah. Didn't try 48 since 50 felt pretty damn snug... Could try when I go back but :O

edit: also probably not some ripped unit like you.... yet. (A LONG WAY AWAY "YET") :P

... I... I don't know brah. Didn't try 48 since 50 felt pretty damn snug... Could try when I go back but :O

edit: also probably not some ripped unit like you.... yet. (A LONG WAY AWAY "YET") :P

You might be alright mate. I'm snug in a 52 and 187cm, only 80kg. Body shapes and brands vary so much. Just make sure it's tight, but allows you to move around on a bike. Pas had me sit on a bike at Peter Stevens, which you should do to get a feel for if the gear is too restrictive. And remember, it will loosen up over time. You're doing the right thing :thumbsup:

Dezz has huge legs if I recall correctly.

Yep

Spoke to her last weekend, said I'm not gonna have any regrets, so just one last time, do you want to try again?

She said No. Had a bit of an argument, got upset, next day thought "f**k you" and started moving on. Today she messaged me about picking up her shit then wanted me to drop it off, I said No. Of course she started an argument over it and resorted to insults, and I didn't. I didn't give two f**k's, I felt nothing anymore, and I loved it.

Add in the fact that I'm seeing a f**kin cute as f**k chick this weekend, 10 times hotter than my ex... yeah, I'm already happy :P

fuck bitches

get money

You might be alright mate. I'm snug in a 52 and 187cm, only 80kg. Body shapes and brands vary so much. Just make sure it's tight, but allows you to move around on a bike. Pas had me sit on a bike at Peter Stevens, which you should do to get a feel for if the gear is too restrictive. And remember, it will loosen up over time. You're doing the right thing :thumbsup:

Dezz has huge legs if I recall correctly.

Oooh, that's an idea. When I go to make my purchase I might ask if they'll let me do just that :D. Yeah with the loosening up considered, I was edging towards the 50. Also it had the insert liner thingy you could take out for summer, which frees it up a little? Plus my cut continues... maybe factor that in... xD.

Cheers for advice though, liking the sit-on-a-bike-there-with-it idea.

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