Hi Mike, I too have a VQ25det powered M35, but I have also serviced V35.
Anyway if you haven't already bought all your gear, here are some recommendations
Oil - Gulf Western Souji S6000 $65 (I have found it "better" than Redline - both Grade V oils - and is a fraction of the price)
Oil Filter - Nismo (Veruspeed) - all details/numbers in the link
Fuel Filter - dunno, have not yet done mine
Brake pads for our sweet as stock Brembos. - QFM HPX are ideal for road use and are cheap! Contact GSL RallySport
Spark plugs - Denso Iridium due to their superior spark and long life. You'll need the IKH16 plugs, check eBay Motors (US) for a cheap set
Brake Fluids - Dot 4
Radiator Coolant - I have Holden coolant in mine as my radiator fabricator recommended it, but I hear that the Nissan coolant is pretty good