There is no pos or neg side/pin on the vct solenoid.... its a solenoid/coil, there is no polarity.
I wouldn't go buying spitfires just yet.
Are you running the stock s2 loom and coil packs or have you plugged the original loom onto the neo coil packs? I would buy a set of s2 r33 coil packs (not fking yellow jackets)and sit them on the plugs using the original s2 r33 loom.
Lastly, turn the boost down before you get it tuned... neo engines have more static compression. If you'r running 18psi on a non neo rb25 tune, you may very well be hammering your new engine to death... as well as being the source of your ign issues.