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How long were you friends for?

And was it a close friend or acquaintance?

And how did the situation come up? Did she one night say I want some cawk?

it's Friday spill the beans I need entertainment

This guy has a fettish don't you lol

I'm only friends with one, and just as a hi how are you if I ran into her, otherwise f**k that. I have enough respect for my current gf than to be running around talking to my exes.

It is only possible to be friends with your ex if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place. Don't try and tell me otherwise birds lol.

It's good that you were able to cut ties, but you gotta be able to stick to it, sometimes the easier way of sticking to it is to just rebound, or constantly go out with mates, it will show u that you don't need her, and will piss her off as well when she figures you don't need her.

Unless you're f**king your ex I don't see the problem. Respect for current gf? What about respect for you? If you're friends with an ex and your gf has an issue with it, then she doesn't trust you / jealous / insecure. I don't change my friends to suit a girlfriend, they must adapt to my life, like I adapt to theirs. You sound like one of those guys who would stop seeing their friends if their gf asked them to. /alpha

Saying "if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place", well you can say that about any relationship that ends really, if you're one for regrets. More important in deciding potential for friendship again is if you were friends beforehand or not, and how strong willed you are.

And stop trying to piss off exes / get revenge lol. Unless they cheated on you and you wanna hurt them, it's just you trying to win her back cause you know if she said "let's get back together" you'd do it in a heartbeat. Moving on is actually moving on, i.e. ex doesn't affect your decision making abilities or actions in any way,

Unless you're f**king your ex I don't see the problem. Respect for current gf? What about respect for you? If you're friends with an ex and your gf has an issue with it, then she doesn't trust you / jealous / insecure. I don't change my friends to suit a girlfriend, they must adapt to my life, like I adapt to theirs. You sound like one of those guys who would stop seeing their friends if their gf asked them to. /alpha

Saying "if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place", well you can say that about any relationship that ends really, if you're one for regrets. More important in deciding potential for friendship again is if you were friends beforehand or not, and how strong willed you are.

And stop trying to piss off exes / get revenge lol. Unless they cheated on you and you wanna hurt them, it's just you trying to win her back cause you know if she said "let's get back together" you'd do it in a heartbeat. Moving on is actually moving on, i.e. ex doesn't affect your decision making abilities or actions in any way,

Comes back to being raised in a different culture..

You can be the alpha male all you like, but when it comes down to it I can admit to being whipped, where as you're SO whipped, you don't even know its happening.

I didn't say all relationships that end are stupid, that's you spinning words, I said that if you are able to easily become friends after a relationship, then the relationship never should've have been entered. All you would learn is you can't f**k friend unless that's the basis of your friendship.

You cannot tell me, that it wouldn't upset you, knowing that your Missus is going out and "catching up" with an ex from a previous serious relationship. Don't feed lies to people. If you think that it's fine to be friends with your ex like that, then you have NO respect for the person you are with and/or you are lying to yourself.

And I only pissed off exes because I was cheated on lol. So I agree with that point

Unless you're f**king your ex I don't see the problem. Respect for current gf? What about respect for you? If you're friends with an ex and your gf has an issue with it, then she doesn't trust you / jealous / insecure. I don't change my friends to suit a girlfriend, they must adapt to my life, like I adapt to theirs. You sound like one of those guys who would stop seeing their friends if their gf asked them to. /alpha

Saying "if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place", well you can say that about any relationship that ends really, if you're one for regrets. More important in deciding potential for friendship again is if you were friends beforehand or not, and how strong willed you are.

And stop trying to piss off exes / get revenge lol. Unless they cheated on you and you wanna hurt them, it's just you trying to win her back cause you know if she said "let's get back together" you'd do it in a heartbeat. Moving on is actually moving on, i.e. ex doesn't affect your decision making abilities or actions in any way,

My view on if your partner sees ex's.

If they have broken up for a while and have been friends and hanged out for a while before you dated its ok

If it's a recent breakup or they never really hung out and if my gf says oh btw im just going out tonight to see my ex. I would be raging

Rolling some guards, helping Jess with a job

Perhaps kebabs.. Sup?

Lol was just a joke that I was going to sex you

But in anycase I could do kebabs late at night!

My view on if your partner sees ex's.

If they have broken up for a while and have been friends and hanged out for a while before you dated its ok

If it's a recent breakup or they never really hung out and if my gf says oh btw im just going out tonight to see my ex. I would be raging

Lol was just a joke that I was going to sex you

But in anycase I could do kebabs late at night!

We could do that too.

Lets go kebabs!

Comes back to being raised in a different culture..

You can be the alpha male all you like, but when it comes down to it I can admit to being whipped, where as you're SO whipped, you don't even know its happening.

I didn't say all relationships that end are stupid, that's you spinning words, I said that if you are able to easily become friends after a relationship, then the relationship never should've have been entered. All you would learn is you can't f**k friend unless that's the basis of your friendship.

You cannot tell me, that it wouldn't upset you, knowing that your Missus is going out and "catching up" with an ex from a previous serious relationship. Don't feed lies to people. If you think that it's fine to be friends with your ex like that, then you have NO respect for the person you are with and/or you are lying to yourself.

And I only pissed off exes because I was cheated on lol. So I agree with that point

I'm whipped? How? I'm confused. Who is the one who doesn't talk to exes out of "respect" for the new gf? Admitting you're whipped isn't a valid excuse for being a shit mate...it's embracing being a shit mate, which is even worse.

Plenty of people form successful relationships out of friendships. Going back to friends isn't a prerequisite for the relationship being a bad idea, you can say that about any relationship...it's a moot point. If anything they are the better relationships, because they haven't cost you your friendship too, which is often what people miss the most after a break up. No loss here.

Actually, I was in a relationship where my girlfriend had an ex as a friend, as did I. We were both comfortable with it because we were two secure individuals who knew where we stood with each other; we trusted each other to know our friendships were just that and nothing more. Neither of us cheated or saw this as disrespecting each other, so how can it possibly be? You can't really judge it because you've never pulled off being friends with an ex. Welcome to the 21st century brah.

My view on if your partner sees ex's.

If they have broken up for a while and have been friends and hanged out for a while before you dated its ok

If it's a recent breakup or they never really hung out and if my gf says oh btw im just going out tonight to see my ex. I would be raging

I agree with your view. The friendship needs a test of time to prove to yourself that you aren't getting back with them / trying to. A recent break up is dicey cause you likely still have feelings or the ex does, which is unfair on your new partner. But if it's that recent, it's probably too soon to be dating someone new anyway.

I'm whipped? How? I'm confused. Who is the one who doesn't talk to exes out of "respect" for the new gf? Admitting you're whipped isn't a valid excuse for being a shit mate...it's embracing being a shit mate, which is even worse.

Plenty of people form successful relationships out of friendships. Going back to friends isn't a prerequisite for the relationship being a bad idea, you can say that about any relationship...it's a moot point. If anything they are the better relationships, because they haven't cost you your friendship too, which is often what people miss the most after a break up. No loss here.

Actually, I was in a relationship where my girlfriend had an ex as a friend, as did I. We were both comfortable with it because we were two secure individuals who knew where we stood with each other; we trusted each other to know our friendships were just that and nothing more. Neither of us cheated or saw this as disrespecting each other, so how can it possibly be? You can't really judge it because you've never pulled off being friends with an ex. Welcome to the 21st century brah.

In any case it very different between u n me, I guess. I mean, you're a dick swinger lol

In any case it very different between u n me, I guess. I mean, you're a dick swinger lol

And that's what makes Australia > Sri Lanka, you're allowed to be different to me.

Tehe

Fark went away for a while this joint turned all emo dr Philly an shit

I don't talk to exes I mean it's an ex for a reason nothing against them, but I wanna move forward if I thought they were part of my future wouldn't be an ex in the first place.

Nothing wrong with being whipped either - usually something single guys throw around oh your so whipped bit rich coming from blokes who spend all weekend getting wasted with other blokes

/sausagefestlyfyo

Obviously not birds he is a sexy kent but most single guys well they ain't

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