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I'm only friends with one, and just as a hi how are you if I ran into her, otherwise f**k that. I have enough respect for my current gf than to be running around talking to my exes.

It is only possible to be friends with your ex if the relationship was a stupid idea in the first place. Don't try and tell me otherwise birds lol.

It's good that you were able to cut ties, but you gotta be able to stick to it, sometimes the easier way of sticking to it is to just rebound, or constantly go out with mates, it will show u that you don't need her, and will piss her off as well when she figures you don't need her.

And if you two end up getting back together, just be aware that it will be a very different relationship and will probably not last that long.

+ 1 to that

Hang out with your mates, talk to new girls, get back into your hobbies. Once you find a new girl you will soon forget about your ex, and think back what an idiot you were for trying to get back with her

the way I see it there are 2 options...

1) break contact... Don't text, don't reply to texts, dont answer calls, and do NOT drunk dial. do absolutely nothing. There is nothing they hate more than this. You can move on or not, she will never know, and this will hurt the most... for the longest time. she doesn't deserve your contact. This is probably the easiest on you aswell.

2) if you are really pissed about it.... and i mean reeeeeealy pissed.. ask to try again...be the best god damned boyfreind in the universe so she HAS to take you back... then when she is asleep inject her with a little heroin each night... a little bit more each night untill she starts to get sick when she wakes up... THEN tell her what you did, leave and refer to option 1

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Thread on BB got deleted by cliffs:

- Brah found out his GF was cheating

- Made her shakes before he found out, he added in weight gainer and she unknowingly consumed an extra 1,000 calories a day
- The results after 4 weeks:

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Thread coulda been fake but still had a laugh

staying friends is more often than not a bad idea, unless you were good friends before you got together.

I miss the friendship I had with my ex, she was pretty much my best mate, but it wouldn't be possible to stay friends as we weren't friends before we got together and there will always be some feelings there

staying friends is more often than not a bad idea, unless you were good friends before you got together.

I miss the friendship I had with my ex, she was pretty much my best mate, but it wouldn't be possible to stay friends as we weren't friends before we got together and there will always be some feelings there

Have you ever been in a long term with a friend?

Once you take it that one step further the friendship goes away.. And that's the chance you take by dating them.

How long were you friends for?

And was it a close friend or acquaintance?

And how did the situation come up? Did she one night say I want some cawk?

it's Friday spill the beans I need entertainment

Agree with dezz...if you had friendship beforehand then there can be something worth salvaging. It's tough but eventually you do lose the feelings, the same way a chick friendzones a guy. Don't think that cutting ties is always the answer too...some people do that and the day they see their ex again, bam, all the feelings come back. Like going cold turkey on an addiction and then having just one cigarette or trip to the pokies. But most of the time it is the best way to do things.

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