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i only have my cat, to keep me company through the cold winter nights

I don't have a pet.

inb4 defect op

I was at the last one last week or whenever it was, also at Morabbin Bunnings. TMU car was there when we rolled in on our bikes and my first thought was f**k this here we go... To my surprise, they sat in their car the whole time, a few of the organisers spoke to them about whatever, and EVERY single car (there was around 200) and bike (30-40) was well behaved when exiting, not even any flogs revving engines etc (and there was a lot of modified Fords/Holdens).

Not sure if the cops sent out EPAs to everyone the next day, but if not, they weren't cocksuckers for once.

We met in kindergarten :( were friends then, then went to different primary schools and didn't stay in touch. Nek Minnit same High School, Year 7 same homegroup together, good friends. All friends through high school. Get together at the end of 2010 and been madly in love since.

What I meant by haven't been single in 4 years, I broke up with my first GF and got with this girl shortly after as I'd been chasing her the whole time at High School (douchebag I know..)

Never ever lost a best friend before and this is killing me every day, been a month now since we broke up, but only really hit home in the last 2 weeks. I've cut all contact but f**k every day... stressed to the absolute hilt all because of this.

It's shit, no way around it. My ex, I was with her a few years earlier, didn't work out, then for the next few years I was still in love with her the whole time so I wasn't interested in meeting anyone else. Instead I just f**ked broad minded persons who I literally couldn't care less about.

Around 3 years later we got back together, and were together for a year...In the end it didn't work out, and it's been about 5 months now. Absolutely no contact since it ended because she hates me, but I'd never do anything to 'get back at her' or make her jealous etc. It's a massive shame it didn't work out because she was like a best mate as well as a girlfriend, but shit happens. I haven't slept with anyone since for whatever reason, but knowing it didn't work out with us, I can only hope she's happy now.

I know better than most that you don't wanna hear 'you'll be fine' or be told to go out and bang some broad minded person to forget about her.... But it'll get a bit easier as time goes by and maybe you'll find someone else who makes you as happy as she did. I don't think I will find that kind of relationship again so I'm not planning to be in another relationship again

If I read previous pages right and you are keeping ya distance no contact etc i think that's a bad idea gotta put up a fight brah doesn't sound like any damage has been done that can't be fixed

Worst case always go down swinging if she still doesn't see your right for her you can move on knowing its her loss

If I read previous pages right and you are keeping ya distance no contact etc i think that's a bad idea gotta put up a fight brah doesn't sound like any damage has been done that can't be fixed

Worst case always go down swinging if she still doesn't see your right for her you can move on knowing its her loss

This is good advice.. I did this with my ex, similar situation to yours Borci except for the lifelong friends bit. She didn't want to get back together so I stopped talking to her.

Bit over 2 years later and she is engaged, I ain't even mad. Didn't think I'd ever be ok with it obviously, but time heals all wounds

You'll find another girl to love dezz...you may not be looking for a relationship, but one will find you again one day I bet. Time heals all that shit eventually and you never know who you're gonna meet in the future. I always thought the last ex was perfect for me until I meet the next gf and then realise she's even better. But this can be 4-5 years apart. You get good at filtering the qualities you like/don't like and you also tend to get less picky as age goes on = easier to find love again.

Sometimes it takes 6 months, sometimes 6 years, but memory loss and repression is a great thing!

Wow didn't know we were all lovestruck romantics...

^ lol was waiting for it... damn wu tang, where's hektik at? :P

3 cop cars at the Krispy Kremes when I left there about an hour ago... They'd been there since I arrived, just hanging out and making sure noone was doing skids etc...

Was a bit of a commo fest... but a bunch of lines, heeeaps of bikes as well :O

FC Hako installed. Found free version of FC Edit ftw. Can save/load/backup and edit an infinite number of tunes hoorah! Getting all fast and the furious with the laptops and the floorpans falling out now.

DANGER TO MANIFOLD

It's shit, no way around it. My ex, I was with her a few years earlier, didn't work out, then for the next few years I was still in love with her the whole time so I wasn't interested in meeting anyone else. Instead I just f**ked broad minded persons who I literally couldn't care less about.

Around 3 years later we got back together, and were together for a year...In the end it didn't work out, and it's been about 5 months now. Absolutely no contact since it ended because she hates me, but I'd never do anything to 'get back at her' or make her jealous etc. It's a massive shame it didn't work out because she was like a best mate as well as a girlfriend, but shit happens. I haven't slept with anyone since for whatever reason, but knowing it didn't work out with us, I can only hope she's happy now.

I know better than most that you don't wanna hear 'you'll be fine' or be told to go out and bang some broad minded person to forget about her.... But it'll get a bit easier as time goes by and maybe you'll find someone else who makes you as happy as she did. I don't think I will find that kind of relationship again so I'm not planning to be in another relationship again

Yeah I know, all my mates are trying to help me through it, and every day I get a little stronger, it's just hard still as we did everything together, every day.

If I read previous pages right and you are keeping ya distance no contact etc i think that's a bad idea gotta put up a fight brah doesn't sound like any damage has been done that can't be fixed

Worst case always go down swinging if she still doesn't see your right for her you can move on knowing its her loss

I put up a fight, the first week I thought give her some space, that the fight was ridiculous. Second week I got a little tired, tried to talk to her and see her every day. Third week I started getting emotional, telling her how much I love her and how things will change, tried everything. Now I think it's just time to resign to the fact that what's happened has happened, maybe it will be the best for our relationship and it'll fix itself, but maybe it won't and I have to move on. It's very hard for me as I'm not a quitter and have never ever let anything go, I always had the power and now I've got nothing.

This is good advice.. I did this with my ex, similar situation to yours Borci except for the lifelong friends bit. She didn't want to get back together so I stopped talking to her.

Bit over 2 years later and she is engaged, I ain't even mad. Didn't think I'd ever be ok with it obviously, but time heals all wounds

Yeah, keeping my distance for now, she still contacts me every second day with something thats annoying her about me.

Like we didn't go out a LOT when we were together, she never had any money (no job), and I wasn't willing to pay for things for her EVERY WEEK.

So I've been out 2-3 times in the past couple of weeks, and she got angry at me last night that, I never went out with her, but now that I'm single I'm going out all the time and that pisses her off.

Do you know what I mean when I think that, it's like she says she doesn't love me and wants to move on, yet she still cares so damn much about my life as if she still wants to be a part of it..

I think if you still love her don't give up. Life's too short.

Trying, trying very hard.

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